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<\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\nThere are a number of ways to ensure your civil ceremony is a magical occasion. An outdoor ceremony under a rustic pagoda or a light and airy service in a magnificent orangery, anything goes. Discover our top tips to ensure your wedding ceremony is truly special. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
How does a civil ceremony work?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Stripping it back to basics, a civil ceremony is a non-religious wedding ceremony<\/a>. It can take place at a Registry Office or any other establishment that is licensed for marriage ceremonies. The wedding is conducted by a Currently in 2019 in the UK, civil wedding ceremonies are generally only licenced to take place in a permanent built structure. As a result, wedding venues that are licenced for civil ceremonies outdoors will more than likely have a permanent pagoda. Approval is not given for entirely open air spaces. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Civil ceremony licenced spaces also have to be open to the public. This is why it’s super unlikely that your home or back garden would never be ceremony licenced approved!<\/p>\n\n\n\n There might be some\nleniencies, such as approval on a permanently moored, publicly open boat. You\u2019ll\nneed to check with your chosen space to find out exactly where the ceremony can\ntake place.<\/p>\n\n\n\n There are still certain formal statements and promises which must be exchanged. However, it\u2019s possible to tailor the ceremony to ensure it is personal to you and your partner. You can also choose readings and music which can really make your wedding ceremony unique to you both.<\/p>\n\n\n\n If you stick with\nthe essential legal procedure and formula of words that the registrar must\ninclude, civil ceremonies can be super short. <\/p>\n\n\n\n \n\nThe addition of your favourite songs, poetry or readings to the order of service makes the entire ceremony personal to you. It will also enhance the atmosphere, style and substance of your wedding \u2013 making it more of a celebration!\n\n<\/p>\n\n\n\n Music and readings\nalso enable you to gently relax into the ceremony before you actually exchange\nyour marriage vows. So you can shake off those last minute jitters!<\/p>\n\n\n\n There is arguably\nnothing that allows for a more personal ceremony than opting for a celebrant.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cThey by definition are trained to make the ceremony completely about you,\u201d states professional celebrant Helen from Treasured Ceremonies<\/a>. \u201cA celebrant will go out of their way to find out more about you.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n A celebrant will dig deep and give couples the creative freedom to mould their ceremony to reflect them. Without the formal restrictions of a registrar, couples can have their entire wedding ceremony personally written. Brides and grooms can also create their own vows, making for a entirely meaningful experience and a celebrant can help with this.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Although not currently legally recognised in England and Wales, a celebrant officiated ceremony is still a ceremony where you declare your love and commit to one another in front of witnesses. To make it official, the paperwork simply has to be done separately. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Helen suggests\nthat, \u201cmany brides and grooms are seeking the service of a celebrant because it\ngives them far more freedom and a much richer experience.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n Essentially writers, celebrants can write your personal love story and ensure your wedding is a reflection of you as a couple. Opening up your options entirely, couples can explore spiritual avenues. Think hand fasting and sand pouring for a ceremony that really channels beautiful symbolism.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Music, playing softly as your guests gather before the wedding ceremony takes place helps to develop the atmosphere. Naturally your guests will gather and chatter amongst themselves, music really enhances the sense of importance that should accompany an exchange of wedding vows. <\/p>\n\n\n\n It also creates a\nmood of contemplation and expectancy, and settles your guests in anticipation\nof the bride\u2019s entrance. The particular style of music you choose will help to\nset the scene for the ceremony to follow. Opt for soft piano, soulful vocals or\neven a harpist for a truly elegant occasion.<\/p>\n\n\n\n A musical fanfare\ntells your guests that something important is about to happen. A joyful piece\nof music turns the entrance of the bride into a special event. Usually, the\nentrance walk is not a lengthy one! However, there is no reason why a complete piece\nor section of music can\u2019t be included for the bride\u2019s entrance (with or without\nbridesmaids). <\/p>\n\n\n\n Think outside the box and ditch Wagner\u2019s Bridal Chorus for something a little more personal or contemporary. Imagine gliding down the aisle to an inspiring piece of music that\u2019s particularly meaningful to yourself and your partner. Opt for a string quartet <\/a>at your mansion wedding or a talented guitarist at your festival-style outdoor ceremony, the choice is yours. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Lend your wedding ceremony personal significance by\nincluding a couple of poems or short readings that sum up your feelings for\neach other. You could choose a piece that affirms your love before the ceremony\ntakes place, enhancing the moment the vows are exchanged.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Consider an extract from a beloved novel or a\nsnippet of dialogue from your favourite film. This is a great way to intertwine\na mutual love for something you and your partner share. <\/p>\n\n\n\n You could also choose to research wedding-related poems and find one that is fun and speaks to you as a couple. This will help to place the exchange of vows in a more personal and real context.<\/p>\n\n\n\n The involvement of\nclose friends and family will of course make the ceremony feel wonderfully personal.\nIt\u2019s a superb way for them to feel even more of a part of your special\nday. <\/p>\n\n\n\n You could always\nask them to read something of your choosing or give them the freedom to pick a\npassage that reminds them of you as a couple.<\/p>\n\n\n\n As well as this, the involvement of guests as more than witnesses increases the power of the promises being made.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Adorning your\nwedding ceremony space with fantastic d\u00e9cor is an excellent way to ensure the\nspace looks magical. Flowers are the obvious first choice. <\/p>\n\n\n\n From blooming flower arches to pedestals bursting with foliage, choose fresh flowers that complement your style. You could always opt for more budget-conscious silk designs. This is a great choice if you\u2019re dreaming of statement pieces such as an aisle marked with blossom trees<\/a> or a lavish flower wall. <\/p>\n\n\n\n To create a truly enchanting atmosphere, experiment with lights. Entwine fairy lights and lanterns throughout the tree branches at your woodland ceremony or choose to line your aisle with candles and candelabras. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Beautiful chairs, chair covers, or an eclectic mix of seating is a simple but effective way to personalise your ceremony. Besides, you can add sashes of absolutely any colour to match your colour scheme.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Also, arches are a fantastic way to add a romantic detail. Going beyond traditional flower arches you could opt for rustic wooden structures woven with beautiful draping fabric. Alternatively a stainless-steel arch draped in lights would elevate an industrial ambience. <\/p>\n\n\n\n The signing of the register is the perfect point to include favourite musical items. Music has the power to touch people\u2019s hearts in a way that words by themselves cannot reach! You can enhance the sense of occasion by selecting songs or particular pieces of music that sum up the commitment you are making to one another.<\/p>\n\n\n\n The style of music you choose will also help to give your wedding ceremony a personal signature. For example a classical string quartet gives a formal sense of tradition and a selection of Irish jigs and reels will lend a more homely, rustic feel. Similarly Swing jazz can add a spot of worldly razzmatazz to the occasion.<\/p>\n\n\n\n There is nothing\nquite like live music for creating the sense of joyous celebration. Whether\nit\u2019s down-home jigs and reels, bubbly Haydn or Mozart, or jaunty Sinatra-style\nswing jazz classics, light-hearted music brings out the smiles and puts a spring\nin the step of all concerned.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Brides and grooms get the chance to walk in front of their loved ones for the first time as a happily married couple. Ensure the music that accompanies you both down the aisle together is just perfect. <\/p>\n\n\n\n With bright, happy, live music as an integral part of your wedding ceremony, it won\u2019t be long before the corks are popping and the champagne is flowing!<\/p>\n\n\n\n After you\u2019ve chosen the ideal readings, poetry and music for your own personalised wedding ceremony, do make sure that you discuss your plans with the registrar. <\/p>\n\n\n\n![\"civil](\"https:\/\/s3.amazonaws.com\/images.theweddingsecret.co.uk\/magazine\/planning\/make-your-ceremony-special\/DB-photography-civil-wedding-ceremony-image-9.jpg\")
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<\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\nAsk family members or friends to read passages for you<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Beautiful d\u00e9cor <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
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